Online dating one night stand but that he had abandoned afte

First met success online dating

I and M in Wuhan last year on the understanding of a business occasion. I was just graduated to work, to accompany a regional leader to attend the General Assembly. M is far away in Shanghai, the representative of the client company to send over, handsome look unusual, looks too young and not skimp. After the formal exchange of business cards we have, on purely a courtesy to climb few words.

After the meeting, both sides have the intention to have dinner with high-level, so a group of people will be transferred to the dinner table. I was the first experience of such entertainment scene, if not speak, do not be drinking wine; Dao Shi M showed a "hardened" the sophisticated, not only to help his boss on behalf of the cup to drink a lot, but also out of Ms. care, I block off a lot of help. That night we be truly met, I would have rather liked the young and promising young man.

After contact because of some work and I had several telephone conversations M, then simply add the MSN and Internet QQ, to facilitate contact. This became the beginning of fall in love, this, I am not surprised. After a few nights, "unexpectedly" on-line met, we will tacitly began to daily web chat. In that period, I wait for every night of his head line on the screen flashed. As a girl, I was still very reserved, so each time he called the first sentence of greeting, not once been disappointed.

Gradually, I know that M 3 years old than me, Zhejiang, only big city in the heart of efforts to doing a "new Shanghai people." As Shanghai has relatives, 4-year universities in Shanghai time, he has made it quite standard Shanghai dialect. His young age, can really understand that there are many reasons a lot of work, give me all he's awake. I have to confess to his own situation, he had a strange confidence. Took a new picture every time I will happily pass on him, a way to listen to his beautiful praise me, my heart will be secretly filled with happiness. A few months later, our experience with each other's feelings are made clear with each other, feeling no longer exists between us any secrets.

This way, I and M protracted and ambiguous in contact with. Every night this dialogue has become a spiritual, not a day talking to people less lonely emptiness. I think he is really in love with him.

Second meeting with the "one-night stand"

After half a year, M the company will send him to Wuhan on business, the news so that we were both extremely happy, I was ecstatic. We started planning to meet, I said I can do his tour, took him to stroll around the city of Wuhan; He also plans to delay the return flight two days, just can use on the weekends. In a week before his arrival, I went to burn the hair has never tried modeling; also went to a beauty salon skin care, 288 beauty once before I was not reluctant to do. Do not know why he was so excited, as if already the M as a boyfriend.

He went to Wuhan, the first two days in office services, coincided with the work I have, there is no enough time to meet. But when his phone at the thought of he and his same city, they feel warm. Friday night, he finally finished their day's work, they call me. This is good I do as a host to dinner, I can eventually become directly to the hotel where he was staying.

When I follow his room number, and rang the doorbell when the heart is full of expectation and excitement. The door opened suddenly Xianchu may have been familiar with his face, my happiness is full to overflow. He saw me put me into the room, gently on my cheek for a kiss. I thought only the spirit of love through the network that we could meet when zoning of the real sense, but I worry about all consumers under the burst of warm blowing. We chatted for a while in the room, he took me to the downstairs restaurant. The first hotel in the upscale dining, feel good.

After dinner, we still return to his room. Had said good night plan was shelved temporarily, I do also say to him alone. I admit, that night I was that he captured the hearts of so many long days I share the deep heart undefended, even years before I thought well, maybe this time I will own to him.

We sat together watching TV, I take the initiative and kissed him. This is the first time I take the initiative, do not know how to have such courage. As good as I expected in advance, that night we took a step deeper relationship.

Later that weekend, we "take stroll in Wuhan city" a no implementation plan, all into his room Rujiaosiqi to stay together. I really realized that he fell in love with this man, he found my "Mr.Right" all the ideas. I also feel that he was not a unilateral pay, he told me very much, has been reluctant to leave. I jokingly said: "I went to Shanghai to stay with you?" Blinking his eyes, said: "That the best I can every day to hold you up." At that moment, feeling so sweet.

Send him to the airport, we kissed deeply for a long time refused to separate, as if feelings had been Dense.

"Accident" so that we reunited

Since that wonderful weekend, we have a formal relationship be established, although it is far apart distance relationship. He began a daily online affectionately call me "wife" and I miss him more and more.

But soon, I suddenly found myself pregnant. It was a reminder of friends, I own to buy out the tool inspection. I was scared my heart prayer is their mistake. Friends with me hospital, measured results made me stunned for a long time: I really pregnant! Almost exactly a month.

Did not think, I immediately took the news with SMS informed M, monsters I first thought that only he. He may be busy, hastily Huileyiju: "First Do not panic, we talk at night."

Night we video chat, I secretly say behind closed doors to avoid being the parents know. M was very nervous I could not help asking the "pain?", "What strange feeling?" Are the words of concern. When I asked him with a tearful voice, "how", he pleaded with the half-tone semi-exploratory, said: "destroy all right?"

In fact, this is exactly what I think. I am only 24 years old, do not want to not get married to have children, do not want to be defeated by bad luck on this Black snow! Chat that night, my emotions very well, screw around with his temper resentment. Fortunately, he fairly responsible, flew like to pumping a nearby Wuhan weekend to see me. He said he would accompany me to an abortion, that critical moment to have him by my side. My heart was faint consolation.

Abortion is really painful. Had this painful lesson, I vowed never easily surrender their future. Fortunately, his surgery is paid for, plus he can come with me far behind, at least mentally I have great support. I am convinced that this man is truly loved me.

I suggested that he leave in Wuhan stay a couple of days, beating to meet my parents. But he said the company is tied up, use this weekend to Wuhan was his limit, and see what their parents to Japan, longer. I think also that he has tired body, it did not insist. He even sent plane will not let me go, I stay at home and have to rest the body. I knew he was good for me.

I come alone to Shanghai

Destroyed a child, I recognize that they become very sensitive, afraid of M avoiding me, ignore me, and he will always burn for a long time on the phone, even if it has been made to make Ciqiong. Initially M has also been concerned about my physical condition; then he is because frequent travel, less contact with me.

Restored a few months, I lost exactly 5 kg, fortunately not seriously affect health. Also at that time, I made a life's biggest decision: I'm going to Shanghai!

I do not want to go to increase the burden of M, I just want to get a job to support themselves, and then the real and M together. The decision to start disapproval from his mother, but father and cousin are fairly support. I found a Shanghai student help, so more than a month, I arrived in Shanghai alone.

In fact, M is also opposed to the beginning, said that Shanghai is not for me survive fierce competition. Trustee may be the father to help me get a job in Shanghai, I can not wait flew to him. Thought to move in and live with him, can he still does not tell me the details of address, and "enthusiastic" to help me contact roommate, I finally can only be shared with others.

I can not feel my arrival welcomed by M, though he would meet me dinner. This situation continued for more than two months, suddenly one day I received a message M,. He said that, in fact, things between us have been concluded earlier, he had to his mind, why I can not let go, we really should not have to undermine the share of good feeling ... ... a time of earth shattering! I called his phone has been busy tone for one day, I guess he had my number to stop. Text messaging, email to discuss an idea, but without any reply. Occasionally, he used public phone dial phone, academics can he coldly said: "Now the meeting, so call you back later."

Then I leave him at his work place, on the ground floor of the front first so that I acknowledge, he said he simply did not booking me, not to release. Then he finally hit the last one phone call to me: "You should not be so good? This will make you lose all the goodwill remaining. How you make me like this you? ... ..."

Me how M would you like me?

Me how M would not like me right again.