Topic: poor little 20-year-old husband old wife the embarras

We got married

A relationship with Xuezhen, I feel very complicated, do not know how to do, after all, when I was 22 years old and have never experienced such a thing. Since then, they all follow the Xuezhen's arranged.

She immediately took me to travel from Yichang all the way to Sichuan.

In fact, tourism is a minor, her main purpose is to take me to see her family, listen to the views of family members. She has a big sister in Yichang, also a sister home in Sichuan, Third Sister in Wuhan, the parents live together with the Third Sister.

In Yichang, Sichuan, Xuezhen I met the two sisters were surprised, but did not express any objection, that as long as Xuezhen feel Haojiu Hang up.

Came back from Sichuan, Xuezhen also tend to get a perm, hair, look more spiritual. I know that she is to narrow the gap between the two of us in the form the gap.

Gullo out a photo, it was 11 years ago Xuezhen, new hair hot scenic spots in the road shot, wearing a red dress, her face filled with a happy smile, does appear to be the spirit of and another a few years ago photographs can not compare.
We travel back after the end of

, Xuezhen son Yan Feng has already know from the neighborhood where I Xuezhen things, very angry, let me get out and went to the city where his aunt and grandparents complain.

Xuezhen what the parents not much of that opposition, said the decision by the Xuezhen own, but she opposed Third Sister, that the age difference is too great, fear my map is Xuezhen money, but also frankly, do a lover can be, do not get married. Xuezhen said she had no money to plan, do not worry about the money I plan to her, she only plans I have good people, good for her.

1997 Chinese New Year is over, Xuezhen and I go get a marriage license.

Go the way stumbling

After marriage, we have been open a restaurant in the city, busily for a living.
Later, the logistics departments of the University of

major reform, cosmetic makeover, our facade gone, they went out of business back home. Break two years later, in 2000, we own a restaurant out of the area in Zhuodao Quan, 2001, Yan Feng to be married, Xuezhen back specifically to organize his son's marriage, I am left alone to do business in the city until 2002 Nianxia transfer of six appearances. Since then, I will continually onward working for other people, or cook.

I Xuezhen contradiction, that is, from his son get married, have children began.

Xuezhen very fond of her son, nothing by him, not listen to my views, on the buy a house, buy furniture, buy appliances, renovated the house, so that the views I said, I said it only had gone unheeded.

Soon have grandchildren, more a contradiction. Xuezhen is doting on the grandchildren to what to what, the total for the children to eat unhealthy food, as I said to her, she felt that the money I was distressed to me as an outsider.

Then there with his son and daughter to live with, I was more than just the son, daughter-large 1 year old, always awkward, often their family talking and laughing, I could not get into the mouth, completely like an outsider.

I am never lonely, had previously been out open a restaurant, was busy working, time of day are very full account, not many exchanges with Xuezhen, this issue did not come up. Now, the family lived together with them, I realized, mutual exchange is a big problem.

Although with Xuezhen son and daughter the same age, but I still do my husband's part to do Xuezhen annual Spring Festival, Tomb Sweeping Day, I go with her to the grave of her late husband.

Days without AIDS did not taste so, stumbling live.