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Initial contact with the six errors of love!


1: The "box" set of people kicking the tires in love before, on the other side the ideal "look" has a "framework", which is entirely possible.


However, if the other side of the image of the imagination is too good, and require full compliance, then your trip will be very tired in love, and even delayed his own. Such as: requirements cool appearance, temperament and extraordinary character to bring just the soft, deep and unrestrained emotion to, money will only be doing housework ... ... in fact this is really the object of capelin Kok Fung, hard to find.


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Some people just have to wait for a perfect object, as well as the passage of time, even when found himself old, and the other is not you. To get out of this myth is not difficult. As long as you wish each other with 70% agreement on it, so that the remaining 30% of contacts consistent and close to it gradually.


2: "put on airs," Love in kicking the tires, there are obvious advantages to a party put on a "shelf", the overwhelming expectations of each other, so as to set the future relationship and life, "the rules", which too often lead to Huan and unfocused. The most important emotional exchanges of a "real" word. Hearts first collision, is not up to "rack" full of. Because, combined with feelings of equality.


Suppose you are the other side, can you put it? This is the image of you in his mind also affected. Moreover, can not "at this time, silence speaks" as you "Chrysostom difficult to open," the subterfuge. They understand their own heart, but you do not say, other insects are not your mind, how to know what your mind? Always "Look," "I'm not ready yet," give people the feeling of insecurity. Since it is a love is so, then the situation is unavoidable.


3: "pique" is a love of worms "resentfully" is caused by a momentary self-esteem and pride. Wants to conquer each other due to their own, so sometimes a result of a small but big fat gambling strength. Gas, but a word, swallow a move not as a moment and "get to the bottom." "Pouted" the consequence is the establishment of gas just feeling very fragile ashes. Out of "pique" the plight of the "prescription" three:


1, conceited change bad habits, learn mutual respect and mutual understanding.


2, the emotional life of the order as "input" to pay attention to calm the treatment of all.


3, with a sense of balance to the psychological recovery to a normal state to the Deputy.


4: than who stakes. What other people how to use the demanding lover, and even brought the discontent, which started his love is a mistake. Like other people's things, can only be a dream, but reality had to truth. Should focus on both congenial, while the bright colors but not for others to divert attention, and even the partial view of the eye. Make immediate, go to something else.


5: love misled by others who have shared a sense of vanity, is very concerned about friends, love the view of their very focus on each other's "public image." Some girls put their sisters boyfriend for comment. But everyone loved the requirements are not the same, maybe your friend likes tall, 1.70 meters she's not enough for short, or maybe she liked the sense of art, and will not do ... ... if the painting blindly follow the views of friends, will only lead to split end. The most important thing is your own opinion, with your own eyes to judge.

6: too much trust in those who promised to love, the commitment is very tempting. And like to listen to good words of instinct, making commitments into love "manna." So, do not say good words will not please the other side has become a fool.


In fact, the situation promises to the most concentrated, said that after careful consideration not just on impulse, most will not be honored. Moreover, the re-commitment to perfection, with the change of life will change. This is not the intention to deceive each other, but we have to adapt to life changes. So, love those who do not over-confident promise, from the practical to think.