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Want to marry the great men and women, do you know why the couple is in love so long delayed wedding halls do not get into? Of which there are many reasons are to men.
Marriage, I think it was the beginning of the patriarchal society slowly formed. Because children are women, and men in order to determine which child is theirs, then found a reason to determine their sexual partners, the reason was, "marriage."
With marriage, there will be a family, the men will have a regular woman, this woman, a child born under normal circumstances can determine this man has. Matriarchal society before there should be no marriage, because the child is his mother, the man is "kind of horse," the father of the child who does not matter.
Women identified their children is very simple, as long as their health is to their children. So do not matriarchal society paternity, the mother always aware of their children, unless the same time, production will have two mothers Baocuo possible.
Therefore, if the child is not hers, that happens in the matrilineal society, patriarchal society than the probability is small, because the patriarchal society women and more than one term matriarchal society: Hongxingchuqiang.
Since the dawn of a patriarchal society, gender inequality and the previous inequality on the opposite change occurred. Previously only stallion men and women responsible for children.
Now, men from the legal and moral requirements, this woman is the man, the woman can only give this man a child, or is "Hongxingchuqiang." But this man can find other women, called "concubinage."
In modern times, the whole world to know, the earth became a village, a woman was found unfair, so that monogamy it. Men had no choice but agreed to because a woman is half of the sky.
However, the development of patriarchal society today, there are several thousand years, men and women from the perspective of evolution of different changes have taken place. Women subordinate to men, want to have a man love her, then married off to find a reliable man himself.
Man can have many women before, and now to die, only one. Men know that married women can only and fixed sexual relations, it is uncomfortable, so wanted to get married before the occurrence of such random and the number of women have relationships are not illegal, nor immoral, so that men find a girlfriend, just wanted to go to bed.
Women more vigilant, not just women in general love began to go to bed, men are smarter, slowly, etc, etc a few months, the women relaxed vigilance, you can bed.
In these months, the men behaved, shopping and watching movies, how to coax girls how to play fun, the purpose is to let her guard. Other girls really let your guard down, men do not care about shopping and watching movies, and only care about going to bed.
So, I saw the spirit of this statement --- it is easy to love a love marriage. If you only care about the boy to bed, I do forget, or break up because he does not love you, only love bed.
Addition to bed if he still love you, and that is with the spirit of love and slowly you can get married. If a man love you do not love bed, I think you can get married, because he really love you and respect you, rather than physical problems. As far as I research, the respect for the man you go to bed instead of the proportion of men than the physical problems more than 1%.
So I say, I do not love Plato, but I want the spirit of love.