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big man. I found that men 1-30 years of age, are obsessed with getting married, do not want to, diving on the life of a being, which is not married into ah. I can find I want other people willing to get married.
Willing to marry the woman I is not no, but I'm not interested in her, really. She told me more than five years, and I feel more and more impress her. She is not angry at me, take me to Bie's. Compare yourself with her, I feel particularly rich in spirit is a person, she was too real, and all day just think how to earn more money.
Can I take care of her are very good, laundry, cooking. Even if I washed her temper, see friends, and she still laughs his face, to meet me face. People say around me, like where to find a girlfriend? Chinese New Year, her over to my parents, and particularly to their filial piety, my parents insinuating that I, too Laotaibuxiao, and the Office of the organized bar .
Fact, the past few years, I do not know broke up with her several times mentioned, and each time she nodded and said OK, pack up and left. May be one or two Monday, and she called quasi me, about me out to dinner, and somehow, every time I could not refuse her.
After dinner, she went out, hands on another Kua into my arms, the. Say, how you are going on last week, ah, made such a big fire? Is not what goes wrong at work do it? Then is go to my house and help me clean up the house, then lived in a big way come ... ...
In January this year, I interviewed the Song and Dance Troupe, the results fell in love with a girl. She is very small, only 22 years old this year. I told her I mean, she is happy and my contacts, she said, love can be, but she do not want to get married, do not want children. Then she toured abroad, and one that is six months away.
Company just had a vacancy in Shanghai, I volunteered, and I had fled. At his girlfriend to call me, I am increasingly absent-minded little girl dancing has not always remember to call me, phone is always recording a message, I heard nothing on the ... ... Now I want to say the whole state in the autistic , there is not much on anything the passion.
Sometimes I even send it to, anyone who is willing to marry me marry who I am! I really do not want the two. May sometimes want to, well, look for my girlfriend on it, brought her to me is good. Feelings, I expect nothing, but could not help but doubt will, I feel, my girlfriend told me the good, after all, is not probing ... ...
Can not afford to fly:
like your pen name. Feeling, you are truly like a balloon floating in the air, though vivid look good, but it is not only neither up nor down. For you, a thirty year old boy is just another hidden rebellious phase. All the education you were to tell you, you should give priority to this form of marriage; bottom of my heart, you are still thinking about love with the form of co-existence.
On my side, several friends have their own heterosexual cohabiting girlfriend, but they will from time to time this feeling: to find a wife is not easy. The implication, they did not close the future wife was living with his girlfriend as a candidate. Then, why, and they together? Just out of need or lonely to share you?
You and your girlfriend, from here you see, I do not think that five years of contact to explain what the problem. The distance between parallel lines is always equal, distant sea, go hand in hand, but no real time to blend. The problem is, as a woman, I could not help but want to make your girlfriend to say something.
Even if the same for single men and women of the situation and the mentality will be different. Women in the Bible called "The Second Sex", by Simon de Beauvoir has sharply pointed out the significance of social tradition to give a woman is marriage.
"On the girls, marriage is the only means of integration in society, if no one wants to marry them, from a social point of view, they simply become waste." Those written in the 20th century, then 40 years seems today, in fact, did not fall behind.
For your cold, I think she will not understand no, but she was in a "small but powerful chain" approach to resolve again and again. She is a mature, intelligent woman.
But she ignored that, despite her efforts to achieve success and your marriage, and you escape again and again, in fact, is not you "want" question, but you "can not" issue. Mian Mian's "sugar", the hero says he wants: "to be high everyday", and like him, you want to love in a man-made access to these.
Her carefully created a comfortable life, just let you read the word monotonous. So all the efforts, including to please your family, take care of your daily life, in front of your friends to meet you face ... ... All in all, they both looked so weak and pale.
On the dedication of the habit of marriage needs to maintain her feelings for you. You began to doubt, this is the love? You suspect her utility.
Can really help the two of you, that is, she learned how to accept the end, she must admit that this is far, the biggest failure of her life. Not all of the unilateral efforts of wishful thinking, will certainly be rewarded. Her to you, this is not fair enough.
And relatively parallel lines, line does fit cross, can impact a spark, just like you and the dancing girl. But then what can it? Is not yet farther and farther? Perhaps you well-maintained, fair complexion, rosy, but only you know best, your body will inevitably gain weight, relax.
In the coming days, what you will have other problems. You no longer young. She was condescending to accept your tender feelings, can you? You anxious to Huan, eager to convince her to marry you. 20 newly hatched first, she is perhaps even more want to see a 2:00 a meteor shower. When that time comes, you may even eyes are rolling into.
In gender relations, there is a feeling, ranging between friendship and love that is like. She promised to be your girlfriend, only that she likes you, and can not prove that she loves you; also can not prove that she can only love you. When she fell in love with someone, or feel that like a threat to what she likes, such as dancing career, she will leave you.
Each state who have both a physiological state is state of mind. The eternal law is the "escape" from the single fled marriage, and then fled from the marriage single, the beginning that there is virtually immobile. I do not fear you, because one day you will bow to the times, because then you have lost the "escape" capability.
Law of a Kate Ning said: you get most things you most need. It seemed really a truth.