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Overnight, many men "suddenly middle class" together. If I remember correctly, last year made a weekly issue of "China: the birth of a new class" feature, the "middle class" as the word was completely the same as the flood gates opened.
Frequently in the network and other media appearances, there has never been so easy to discuss without scruple "middle class" standard, the discussion related to annual income, cars, housing, education, entertainment, lifestyle and even more to weight and so on.
But it seems no one mentioned that when a man in the post-natal, and his love will be what happens. Perhaps the word middle class and material only closely related, the other probably less important.
Here I talk about the middle class are simply ineffective, the middle man in me, and no doubt there are a considerable distance - if the middle class in developed countries to bring it standards to say.
But I believe that many men like the warm look forward to a Aventure, as the middle class is also secretly coveted, despite the surface calm and collected, in fact, heart sinking, long agitation in the middle of the avenue leading the way bolted up.
A website has published an article that by 2005, China's middle class will reach 200 million people, according to the subject of middle-class standards in China, this seems not a very inflated figure --- Maybe one day I fo.addParam coffee sitting on the balcony, through the window and saw a car parked downstairs to calculate the savings account number, came round to find themselves accidentally have "suddenly middle class" again.
If, as the article said, China's middle class elements who will be on schedule to reach 200 million, then it really is not a small sum, from now on, we have to look at their relationship.
We all know, "Love is firmly established on the basis of material," the statement more and more recognized by many people, material poverty, lack of time we love it as romantic, it is proved that A Q-type self-deception behind the concept of love, hidden on the matter how parched our expectations.
We finally middle, and simple language, we finally have money, you can send send flowers, to open a Party, no longer have to "thousands of the road at night, dawn grinding bean curd", and we will lose the essence of love inside share of simple, sincere and long-term right?
Money on bad men, men's share of leisure in the post-natal self-confidence and joy and is likely to become a "deterioration" of the catalyst. From the age of view, most of the middle men between 30-40 years old, after the life experiences of love and marriage, they should have a rational understanding of emotions, this intellectual understanding is basically the traditional sense of responsibility and obligation.
The middle man brought to life, attitude and emotional expression of the changes will be enormous, both will become a fierce collision, this time, or to see through the collapse of having peace of mind really believe life to be a new man, or calmly parted ways are not pieces of something new. The problem is, as a middle man, they love the ideal of what the state should be?
I understood this man's love of the middle class: the rich have a material basis, he is better qualified to assume the role of parents, and derive pleasure and achievement, duty and obligation is not a burden but is a pleasure.
For marriage, the middle man should have a deeper understanding of and ability to create mood and style of life, for love, always fresh. Two-material and spiritual wealth, will be removed in the impatient and the nature man, ambitious and other impurities, and become mature, stable, loving up --- for the majority of married, unmarried woman, this man has Fatal attraction.