Men: in extramarital affairs to bear the psychological press

Undeniable that there are indeed some men in order to meet the momentary desires or the pursuit of sensory stimulation, and the lover as a temporary replacement, many of whom are playing the female moral liar; What is more, threatening his career in the lover can not escape when the Fortune to completely remove barriers slaughter.

But more a married man struggling in the dual, wandering in a dilemma, there is the social, psychological and moral of the story was, its only ethical value judgments do not help biased.

First, despite the community's recognition of men's sexual transgressions tolerant than women, but the moral evaluation of the value of personal integrity is still a major scale, even in the highly open nature of the concept of Western developed countries, the private lives of celebrities still rules career, future.

Moreover, men always pay more attention

their social role and business value, extramarital affairs are often just their colorful life of a romantic episode, if the United States to co-existence of Qi, complement each other, they naturally expect the fish and eat it, do not want to swim out of this fascinating but treacherous vortex.

However, once and reputation, career conflicts, they often weigh the interest in stepping down gracefully and reluctantly must sell, very few promising lover at the expense of their own good husband, good father's reputation, and even carrying the family ethics violation charges as well as beautiful self-destruction future of infatuation men.

Second, although the tendency of men's sexual values, pluralistic, open and love, but they make a decisive choice is often more rational than women, more realistic. They long for romantic and exciting affair, but more regret and practical, light marriage facts, may be better spent at home wildflowers Yan Mei, mellow, without losing a warm, elegant, and often more beautiful with age, is good enough; lovers give their take though to intoxicated freshness, but this romantic love although Qinren the heart, but after all, too insecure.

Moreover, a married man in tasting the forbidden fruit, the most part, not with the lover became devoted married couple's expectations, therefore, often only for their extramarital affairs over the load, stress the social role to add some fun, relaxation a bit, as their dull monotony of life in rigid add some spices and dotted it, once faced with the choice between the two will be one or the other, they give back most of this rather desperate romantic love, and return to secular, peaceful reality.

Again, because men may not only strayed into restricted areas in a marriage crisis, many people simply were less controlled, impulsive and "slip", so their extramarital affairs were mostly "emotional" and not "tempted", but also less threw himself into feeling. Moreover, real-life wife far more than competent husband, a married man in the family were not in the lack of basic physiological and psychological satisfaction, nor the lack of sweetness, happiness, when they become dizzy or out of helpless lover Department made "repudiation" of the commitments, returned home to face the reality, they often qualified by his wife, family roles and indefensible, hesitantly.

Once added

became public, the wife is often the target point to a third party to forgive her husband, even doubling the tender to influence her husband, the husband became even more shame, remorse ashamed, and even come to their senses and to "abandon the new nostalgia." Among them, though the husband and wife are also some sub-nature, but because his wife put up with hardships as a good wife usually has little fault, or his wife had worked to make their own sacrifices, and now change their position, could not bear to hurt the vulnerable first wife, or forced standard pressure, no courage out of marriage wall.

Men often originate from their wives and children of conscience and responsibility, or succumb to the pressure of the secular public, extramarital affairs ground chicken in the back of confidence, despite loss to lovers, but after all, they are troubled by the rational choice dilemma.

Men, on the one hand to a successful career, on the one hand to take care of family life for men exhausted, and physical health are often not taken seriously, in fact, is why more men than women need care, they should focus their Health!