Predicament of the Network Age of marriage

Who we have not love, they often love for "love", women in particular. Woman on a romantic vision of love, certainly infected men, because passion is the most contagious of emotions. However, the Information Age is almost cruel to deprive people of romantic love may be, as it is gradually neutralized incubation hotbed of romantic love. In the more immediate sense, passion is for "miss" the accumulation of huge overtake formed, giving lovers the desire to love and cherish can not wait. Now, better transport smooth information channel, all-powerful Internet, is to pass along the love whenever and wherever people's thoughts, so much love, impact mitigation; people no longer hunger for love, lost love so mysterious charm.

Marital predicament, general manager of couples

Li Sheng is the sales manager of a foreign company, the annual salary at between 20-30 million float, another year is "standing" for years; this is a confused man in particular age. He is in the southern coastal city of distant long-distance call, the time on the trees, the summer wind faint, only heard he said: "Now I'm home garden, watching the lights upstairs, imagining his wife's expression feel particularly heavy heart ... ... "

On this Reflections of moonlight flickering night, he poured out heart trouble melancholy feel oppressed so long, his frustration was very strange, that he did not understand why they and confused.

He and his wife were newly married middle-level cadres of the system, was considered the perfect pair of darling, but less than a year, he obviously felt his wife's indifference. He wanted to ignite the passion in the hearts of the gradual degradation of her gentle, however, the closer to her, the more he can not move, his wife's indifference gradually dampen his enthusiasm. Li Sheng confused, I do not know what happened between them.

Apathy and passion as the most contagious, the wife divides the cold, also his mood from bad to worse. A wife to him; cold face relative, as a temporary separation, to test each other's nature. Lee offered to foreign students of the district office to work in conditions that are able to fly back once a week "to visit relatives." Thought heart grow fonder, distance to bridge the gap free of heart, but the cold did not expect the situation with the barriers of time and space, and then get together was actually seems to be absent, to pull are dragged not live.

shadow swept the hearts of students, he wanted to give up, only to "fate do" to explain the fate of their marriage. However, in ambiguous on the day, he found his wife to restore the vitality of the daily, especially on the Internet, that look, that attitude, and if once he actually familiar.

Love to see his wife into the network, Sheng Li is more boring, are to launch an attack on the network it? Than themselves to the Internet to relieve boredom, but love the game online, after all, so not suited to adult students such as Lee, he can penetrate the illusory feeling to keep my sanity.

However, he worried, why they will not "jealous", why not feel pain, "Did I lose much?" The physical pain is a warning signal in crisis, there is no pain who can not effectively protect themselves.

Wife might want to restore excitement to the network, but network became her escape from the reality of the barrier.

Li Sheng want to let it go and wait, but I do not know their growing indifference, Sheng Li reflection: "Is himself lost the ability to do an intimate relationship?" Sex for them has become a dispensable supper, for this state, they are deeply troubling.

I asked Li Sheng: "Do you feel the phenomenon of wife having an affair you?"

"If so, she would not so boring, I would not be so exhausted, all is well explained." Appears in the Li Sheng, was having an affair is not the problem, explains the basic functions of his wife physically and mentally sound.

"You want to divorce you?"

Li and his wife for that matter have asked for advice, his wife said that divorce is too cumbersome, if Lee does not mind students, as will the off. The reality is that although they did not love, not hate each other, nor hatred, but only at their natural decadence. Li and anxiety are in that position, he actually has gradually adapted to, and then further into what they do: work stress, deserted to live, decent clothing, wrapped cold heart, the only entertainment, is roaming the Internet, commune, the extreme fatigue, off the assembly line, a sense of loss, into the barren dreams.

Life is shrinking, instinctive in the degradation

Materialized civilization changed our social and economic living conditions, but also changed the structure of our psychology, the human biological life in the extension, but happy in the degradation, loss of passion may be time to knead the flexibility, vitality is gradually shrinking. Face of material swallowed by the original vitality of the human spirit, we understand Lawrence in "Lady Chatterley's Lover", the call for the care and thought forest guards.

Lisheng Fu Women's sexless and numbness, mainly because they are only in pursuit of unlimited success, the pursuit of promotion, the pursuit of economic returns, the pressure in the high tension state, the overdraft of the energy of life, destruction of the emotional structure, inhibited man's natural needs and passions, which have lost the ability to develop a happy instinct, caught in the continuing cold, depressed mental state. Frigid, deep emotional indifference is the vitality of degradation, the embodiment of decline in the quality of life, is also materialized in the Age of Alienation.