Fear after being forced 80 Chinese New Year

"New Year is a happy thing, but as a single family, his family's eyes they are older teens, the New Year is often more embarrassed to go home. Ears listening to their parents nagging, watching the neighbors more than their age smaller partners are married, there are enthusiastic neighbors stopping by to persuade the New Year, which street has a 'similar', and to look at it. There Even worse, simply did not solicit my opinion, it helped me about a blind date who meet ... ... "

 

80 Chen at the forum after the troubled youth to send this post, then thread the public who, after 80 singles who have been forced emotion, or even "engineer with a robot girlfriend and parents for Christmas," the news have been regarded as a single New Year's Gospel brothers home.

Spring Festival approaching, after 80 young people will gradually into a single three-year-old, a lot of pressure forced them reluctantly to become family. In this regard, the century feeling good margin of expert advice, single people should take advantage of the Chinese New Year, and more and their parents, to win understanding and support their families, while also require active pursuit of happiness, so wonderful life because of love.

80 after being forced, reluctantly forced into family

"Forced family" quickly popular, become a public hot words. As the name suggests, refers to doing the will to work against their people. With the development of society, more and more people are forced into a variety of ethnic groups, such as: ant, crowded class family, overtime family, house slaves, DINK family, tolerance and so sick family.

The pressure of being subjected to forced marriages

remaining men left women were also forced to become a branch of the tribe. Good margin of the century through the survey found that the problem of forced marriage encountered in more than 80 families, the pressure of making their own age of anxiety, coupled with work pressure, communication is relatively narrow, resulting in the marriageable age is that they fall into some degree of love and marriage vulnerable, helpless as a tribe was forced to.

Single men and women fear most heard greeting

You married me?

Aunt Zhang

people next door girl, with you as big, children will play a soy sauce.

Ask other too much, almost on the line.

Hurry it, with a big one.

Certain aunt nephew of my colleagues who good looks Ye Hao, work stability, you go to see it!

Been nagging to be forced - single men and women face several major embarrassment

Although the New Year before returning home, has already done the mental preparation to be nagging, but left many men and women left their families are often forced marriages still could not resist the momentum of the classic lines with a sketch in terms of a home "This heart, ah, cool tile tile cool."

1, his family kept urging, the New Year back home father so and so talked about neighborhood children who they married, the mother's white hair and sharp increase, asked, "do not worry for your marriage's!"

2, New Year back home, afraid to walk the streets freely, as encountered in a neighborhood acquaintance a friend, will receive the same greeting - "married? Are not bring the other half home?"

3, students, friends of the same age, grew up with little hair, gathering with family members when they come, holding their children more than a few moment more find out that they were "isolated" the.

4, the New Year to visit family, relatives all came up to ask marriage is not solved, or even find little better than his teenage brother and sister are married.

5, over the years, Ben 3 80 immediately after, and age itself is a cross-pressure is not the past Kaner. Was forced out of the plight

Early spring night to sing: "money or not, home New Year." However, after 80 for a single family, compared to money, there is no other half, has become a major obstacle to the New Year back home. Together with the Chinese New Year and Valentine's Day, "Crash", resulting in a single family were family friends "siege" of the risk of greatly increased.

Hai-Yan Gong expert analysis

emotion, love and marriage is a serious life event, no matter what kind of life is now in the state, should be calm with a calm attitude towards marriage, do not have too much pressure, should not blind decision.

Hai-Yan Gong suggested that 80 was forced down after the first thought should be the burden of reunification, peace psychology, and timely communication with their parents, will their true ideas and romantic ideas delivered to their families for their understanding and also for their own decompression . Meanwhile, the proposed single family not to "sit back and wait," some of you can take the initiative to expand the scope of communication, out of their small world, in the context of more fully to find the object that best suits your marriage, out of love and marriage difficulties.

Hai-Yan Gong that happy fact, each person their own hands, it requires us to carefully look for, patient care. Marriage is a serious and solemn matter, everyone should have a happy life, as long as the firm to find, sure to find the right one.